Cooking for Nookie

Flowers spark a warm fuzzy feeling in our hearts and for that moment we know–without a doubt–you’re interested! Not only do we notice and appreciate that you took the time out of your busy schedule to put us first, but each and every time we admire your flowers that same warm fuzzy feeling is sparked [...]

I want to step up on a personal high horse and talk about  HUGE pet peeve for just one second, or a minute. Why is it considered “helping” when a (ok, some) a guy baby sits his own kid, does the dishes, folds the laundry? But that is what women do? Seriously? Are none of [...]

I know and I understand that men are very visual creatures, I am not try to change you.  But I can tell you that there is literally nothing more insulting than being with a man and having him give another woman that up-down look. . .. or up, down and pause. This is bad on many [...]

Ok, so I have been touting that though women are complex creatures, all a guy has to do for some nookie is to do something simple. . . and thoughtful. (thoughtful gifts typically give her months of bragging rights. . . it goes a long, long way. Simple equation: Months of bragging rights for the woman = nookie nights for the man. )

Let me know what works for you. . . .

Jon asked me the question – “how, when a woman is already beautiful, do you make them feel beautiful?” Great question – but let me start with the disclaimer. . . Every woman is different, so if you want to know what makes your specific woman feel beautiful – ask her.
In general, here are some guidelines on what to do and what not to do. . .

When your significant other has a lot in her head, don’t ever say – “Relax, calm down. . . just let it go.” I guarantee we’ve already tried to “let it go” before you said anything.  Comments like that are usually (well, if you aren’t immediately whacked over the head with a meat cleaver) followed [...]